Wednesday, September 15, 2010
I miss it.
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
July-September 2009...
Waiting for ::
++ the g@v't to figure out if they were going to approve our visas or not...
That, in and of itself, was by far the hardest wait. The boys were legally ours according to Ugandan law. Our g@v't felt the need to dispute it, for no good reason. It was a total spiritual battle. There were many many moments I totally, completely trusted the Lord to work it all out. Yet, there were far more moments where I was an emotional mess. I think I sat on the couch for a week after we got home and did absolutely nothing but stare, cry, pray, and hug Joshua and Caleb. I had panic attacks...which I'd never had before. I was exhausted. Jeff was exhausted.
++ the Lord to provide for our daily needs...
Since Jeff lost his job while we were in Africa in June, we spent this time trusting Him for our provision. Thankfully, Jeff is good at building/fixing things and was able to quickly get jobs lined up working on folks houses, yards, remodeling, etc. (We are still in this same place as I type. No "job" for Jeff, but he stays busy doing contract work for others.)
++ the Lord to provide travel expenses should the need arise...
We felt very strongly, that if/when the visas were approved, we'd travel to Uganda as an ENTIRE FAMILY. I could not face leaving J and C in the US all over again. It was hard enough the first time. The Lord did provide the money necessary for all of us to go to Uganda together, through London. We spent one night in London and tried our best to see as much as we could with our big boys in 1.5 days as we could. We all had a wonderful time spent together as the Final Four Dodsons...soon to be The Dodson 7.
++ July 31, 2009 our visas were approved Praise God! All glory and honor go to HIM...it was the Father to the fatherless who set our children free. We waited for airfare to go down in price...from $25,000 in August for all 7 to $6800 for all 7. It gave us lots of time to finish some odds and ends on the house/yard and prepare the boys for the HUGE adjustment that lay ahead. It was actually a big ol' blessing that we had these few months just the four of us. We had no clue how hard our first few months home would be, and now that I look back, I am thankful for our lazy summer between July-Sept.
++ September 11, 2009 arrived. The day we headed off to pick up our 3 boys who had waited for 2.5 months for Daddy and Mommy to return, for the Emb@ssy to 'be fixed' as Alan said, for God to move on their behalf.
The Source Cafe, Jinja, Uganda
It is quite difficult to get 7 people to look at the camera, smile at the camera, etc all at the same time. whew!
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Home for 4 months and things are beginning to even out. I hear 6 months is even better. We have experienced tremendous highs and lows during the first four months, but I must say this...we are blessed beyond measure. I cannot imagine what life would be like without A J D. This family is their family. It is where we all belong, where God planted all of us. He is now watering,pruning, and growing us with his Heavenly showers, His word, and His sanctifying power through the person and work of His Son Jesus.
Friday, October 30, 2009
gracious sakes alive
Today. I really do not want to go into great detail, but today something happened. And the day turned out ok. And I am really thankful that it did...I was beginning to wonder if our new family would ever begin to gel, even just a little bit. Today it did. A little bit. And it was good.
God is faithful.
Saturday, October 24, 2009
4 weeks
It was a nightmarish experience. We had to leave Uganda in July without the boys. That was NOT the plan. But all was straightened out eventually, and we were able to go in Sept. and all come home together. All 7 of us.
I'm back over at typepad.
lauradodson::a joyful life
Come on over. I will not be keeping up 2 blogs. Like I have time. ;o)
Thursday, May 28, 2009
God is Faithful
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
A note from the boys!
This a.m. however, I opened an email that contained a note from our children + a sweet prayer from Alan. Here ya go:
I think the boys will actually welcome big hugs and kisses, they kiss your picture enough! But I think they will adjust quickly since the anticipation of your arrival is so big :) I have to tell you, Alan and I prayed the other day and it went something like this... "Dear Lord Jesus, I thank you for my mommy, and my daddy, keep them safe, and bring them here fast. I thank you that my mommy thinks I'm handsome. I pray in jesus name, Amen!" I'm telling you, I have never seen Alan so excited!
Oh, I have a special treat for you... your three boys are in the office with me and they want to type (or try to type) you a message. "Hello Mommy! I love you! You come! We want to see my mommy! Hello Mommy! How are you? We are fine. We want to see our Daddy! Hello Daddy! Ow are woo (Jeremiah), Daddy how are you? We are fine! Daddddyyyyyy! We want to see Daddy and Mommy. We want to go on airoplane. We want to hug and play and to go to swimming and we swim in water. Hello Caleb and Joshua! We love you! Come soon!"
Alright, that was literally what came out of their mouths as they came into the office and I told them I was talking to you. Haha they kept shouting louder and louder. :) I think this is more of a treat for them!
Monday, May 11, 2009
Travel Plans
I cried in the parking lot of Guadalupe Lumber. ;o) The tears flowed freely and I tried to smile ALOT since all these people were looking at me funny. Good thing I'll never see them again.
AND NOW...drum roll please....
We travel May 27 and go to court June 1. These are both tentative dates, but we do book flights tomorrow. Yippee.
God has been so good. I know He is more faithful that I will ever comprehend.
My parents come tomorrow for a very short visit, once they're gone I'll be scurrying around tieing up loose ends.
People! We're going to the Pearl of Africa.
Praise God. For His is the kingdom, the glory, the honor, and power. Amen.
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
influx
Ohhhhh, Laura! It is so good to hear from you! Your boys are amazing...but you already know that =) Today Alan came to me and said "My mom is coming!" I said, "Yes, your mom is coming soon and she loves you!" He had a big smile and another worker said, "Yes, and your daddy too!" We are so happy that your time is so near.
I know you are in contact with Maria too, but if you have any questions let us know and we will try to be helpful.
Court went well for us this week and Thursday is our ruling. It is encouraging that the process seems to have improved...just in time for you to come =) Peter is an awesome lawyer...you will be in good hands.
We will be praying for you and look forward to hearing all about your own journey in Uganda. Be ready to recieve and give endless hugs and kisses...
Let me say...for the record ;o) ... it makes my heart SING to hear of Alan's eagerness for his Mommy and Daddy to come. He is old enough to be taking all of this in, by that I mean what is going on right now with the two other families getting their children. He is processing all this in his little mind and it's clicking.
They've all been 'reading' their book and now that the other two families are there, the boys are realizing (esp. Alan and Jeremiah--their older) that their turn is next. ;o) I wonder if they think it about us while going to bed at night? Obviously, Alan is...and Daniel. I'm sure Jeremiah is, too.
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We (Jeff) spoke for a few minutes during church, we hand out pics and a letter telling the church what we needed.Jeff did such a good job. I am so thankful I have been given such an excellent hubby. I love him so.
A few families have given funds which just blesses up tremendously. We now need $7100. I haven't changed the thermometer cuz it's a pain in the neck. However, I think I'll change it by Friday when all the $$ is in the bank.
Still no word from immigration, but I'm sure it's coming... ;o)
Friday, May 1, 2009
I hope our hearts are big enough ;o)
My cup runneth over!
We had Samaratin's Purse visit at the orphanage today and deliver boxes to the kids. Your boys were so cute! Dan especially loved a spinning top he got. Be prepared to hear "mommy" said to you about 50,000X in a day by him. =) He is deeply longing for you. At first he thought that I was Mommy....then Lori & Dan arrived today and he started gravitating to them and calling Lori mommy...we had to take him aside and explain that you were coming soon. He will be overjoyed when you get here...all three will!
2 days ago Alan came up to me when all the kids were playing and said: My mommy is coming later. I told him that yes you were and that I had talked to his Mommy and she thought he was soooo handsome and loved him very much. He got this HUGE grin on his face and went back to happily playing.
Laura...your heart must be huge because God as given you some sons who will need all the love you and your family has!
Blessings and hope to see you soon!
Maria
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Prayer Card} Update
So. Looks like this will be going out on Sunday at church. Our Pastor said it was fine with him, and said he will ask Jeff to come up to the podium and say his little "thing". ;o) We'll have a letter for each family sitting in the pews. The boys are going to stand at the front and hand out our prayer cards to all who enter.
Folks. Would you look at those faces?! That flower in J's hair cracks me up. I look at that and think, "Oh to kiss those cheeks!" And Daniel looks like a sprite of a fellow, and I want to just scoop him up and squeeeeeeze. And Alan! man oh man he looks like his ready for a good tickle and romp in the grass.
Here's the letter, I know it's long in a blog format, however, would you please read it and tell me how it sounds? Thanks.
{Update Letter}
DODSON FAMILY ADOPTION UPDATE:
Hello from the Dodson family! How are you? We hope well! Thank you so much for praying for us. We appreciate it more than you know. We are nearing the end…or rather, the beginning. Update below!
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When we began our adoption process back in November, it was for the purpose of expanding our family.
As each month passed, however, we began to see that this journey was not about expanding our family. Instead, it became more about bringing family to the orphan. Will our family’s size increase? Certainly, and for that we are thankful! However, our adoption is no longer self-centered, but Christ-centered.
We realize that, as a family, we have been called to minister to those in need…in need of a Daddy, Mommy, and two big brothers. How can we say, “No” to that call? We cannot. How can we say, “No” to Alan, Jeremiah, and Daniel? We cannot! Our 3 boys were abandoned as babies. Thankfully, their Mothers loved them enough to leave them where they could be found, and cared for. (Unfortunately, this is not the case for the majority of orphaned children. Commit to pray for these children. Ask the Lord what He would have YOU do concerning them. James 1:26,27)
Why Uganda? Uganda is the country to which God has called us. He has used the ministry of our church family (Lifegate) to help us see a need there. Uganda’s orphans are no more special than those in America, China, Ethiopia, Ukraine, Russia, or anywhere else in the world. They’re orphans all the same. God has said, “Uganda.” That is where we are going.
God has been truly faithful during our process. Adoption is expensive. We certainly did not have the sum of money necessary to even begin the process, and yet, we were and are certain that this call to adopt, to care for the orphan, is of God. It is our mission. What did we do? We prayed and continue to pray! We prayed that the Lord would “supply all our needs according to His riches in glory”. Philippians 4:19
And do you know what happened? He has and He is! Through several families in our church who have given sacrificially, through family members, and friends in our community, He has supplied us with everything we have needed to this day! Moreover, He will continue to do so! God has not brought us this far to leave or forsake us. He is faithful! To God be the glory, He is so good.
Why this letter? We are still in need of travel fare. It will cost $8000 ($600 has already been donated) in order for us to travel to and from Uganda. We are leaving for Uganda in about 3-4 weeks!!! J We have been hesitant to ask for contributions from our church, family, friends, or our community. Money is especially tight these days for everyone. We certainly have no desire to cause anyone any financial stress. However, in Scripture, God tells us to ask. Luke 11:1-13, John 15:16, I John 5:14,15
So we are asking, would you please consider giving towards our airfare? Would you consider being Jesus’ hands and feet? Would you please consider helping us bring family to Alan, Jeremiah, and Daniel? If you are unable to give financially, would you please consider lifting us up in prayer before our Holy, Heavenly, Loving Abba Father? He is ever faithful! “The Lord is my portion,” says my soul, “therefore I will hope in Him. The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him.” Lamentations 3: 24,25. Financial gifts can be given directly to us, or to Lifegate—please put Dodson Family in the memo. (Lifegate Church, 395 Lifegate Lane, Seguin, TX 78155)
***Prayer Needs: airfare, good health (sewage contaminated water, malaria, typhoid, parasites, etc.), and solid attachment/bonding with boys in Uganda, safe travel, and smooth adjustment in USA.***
“Now to HIM who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to HIM be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” Ephesians 3:20,21
Thank you.
Much love,Jeff, Laura, Joshua, Caleb, Alan, Jeremiah, and Daniel Dodson
Sunday, April 26, 2009
New Photos...YAY!
Jeremiah
Would you look at that SMILE!?!?! Mandy told me that when he arrived at the orphanage as a baby, he was very sullen and withdrawn. It doesn't look like that now, does it?
Daniel
He had a bo-bo on his nose. ;o) He's one little guy, isn't he? Mandy says that he has more clear words than he did her last visit (which I think was Oct. 08). I am so excited about that. I cannot wait to see these guys.
I'm sure we'll be getting some of Alan as well. Internet is patchy over there, so I feel like these pics are a huge blessing. :o)
I'm starting to think that maybe I will take my laptop. She bought a simcard for guests to use on their computer. She is doing this in the evening and I think that might be a good time for me to update as well. We'll see.
Thursday, April 23, 2009
About a year ago...
My thoughts at the time, "Oh. Cute kids."
That's it.
I was happy for them. I wanted to pray for them. And that's as far as it went.
In May, they came to the church/school picnic, and by that time, I was really excited for them. I was excited they were going to have a long layover in London (even though someone was not that eager to see it...and to this day is unimpressed) to get out and stretch and see a tiny bit of the city. I was excited that they would be meeting their littles for the first time and very curious as to how that would go.
Fast forward to November 08, during a Sunday School lesson, Mike made a observation that the first words God spoke to Man and Woman was, "Be fruitful and multiply...". Well. That did me in and I cried the rest of the day. (It has been 11 almost 12 years since I carried/birthed a baby and I really wanted to, and for now, it isn't possible.) I ran into the Nursery and sat there with Amy, April, and someone else, I think. They listened. Amy said, "I'm going to ask you a question that I was asked." "Ok..." "Have you considered adoption?"
Huh?! We had never considered adoption. Not once. We were not closed to the idea and certainly not against it, but never considered it for ourselves. So I pondered on that a week. Prayed. Sought the Lord.
Next Sunday, MORE crying. ugh...it gets old after a while.
I totally lost it when I heard that Amy's family was moving (and still don't like it). Melissa just looked at me and said, "What is wrong? This can't be just because Amy is moving!" I blubbered, "I want to adopt!"
After church, Amy, April, and Melissa (I think) sat down at a picnic table and I joined them. They asked if I had told Jeff. I said, No. Amy said, "Let's do an experiment. Let's pray that the Lord will speak to Jeff about adoption." We went home and that night I told Jeff what I was thinking.
Shocked is an understatement. He said he'd pray about it...which I don't think he did for the first few weeks. I think he was nervous, and didn't want to know what God thought on the matter.
However, when he did start to pray and think about it, he came to me and said he thought this was something we should do. WOW.
Then I freaked out! I questioned him up one side and down the other. I really thought he would say no, and we would move on, and life would go back to normal. When he said yes, I blew a gasket. I really thought it was crazy, and that God certainly was not calling us to do this. I wanted to go back to my safe little life. I was scared to death!
Ha ha. And now look at me...a mom to 5 boys. Those 3 boys are just about to meet us, and us them. We are total strangers. We know nothing about each other. And yet I am their mother. I don't know what they eat, if they have likes or dislikes, what their personalities are like...but if you think about it, what Mom knows these things about her baby? Yes, a 'birth mom' has 9 months to get used to the idea that a baby will be arriving soon...but I have had that time too, 7 months to get used to the idea that 3 little boys will be joining our family very soon. Even a baby born to a Mother are total strangers. At least, that is how I felt when Joshua and Caleb were born. We had to get to know each other. And we did! ;o)
We are still waiting for our immigration papers. Maybe by the end of next week we can start to expect them.
This has been one wild ride so far. And it isn't over yet. However, I have lots of encouragement at my fingertips.
"For as the mountains are round about Jerusalem, so is the Lord round about His people from henceforth, even forever." Psalm 125:2
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Praise GOD from Whom ALL BLESSINGS FLOW!
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"Kids are beautiful.3 boys bonded well.I shared the book with Alan by himself first. He was thrilled.Still a little strong but wonderful.They are doing the book every day.All the kids are enjoying book.Dan has a lot more clear words than last visit.Good trip so far."
Love & BlessingsMandy
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Thrilled beyond words! Thank you Jesus! Isn't it 'odd' how my God gives me just the lift I need when I need it? Just a little reminder that we are...we are...smack in the middle of His plan for us. Yep. God is good like that.
Saturday, April 11, 2009
what a day!
And NO one was in there except the staff.
We filled out our paperwork and waited (with our assigned number) for all of a minute. We each went to our respective desks for our fingerprinting. The woman there kept calling me 'young lady'...48 times to be exact...and to relax my fingers. HUH? I didn't know my fingers were tense! ;o)
She marveled at how well preserved my finger prints are, especially since I am a SAHM who uses bleach. I told her I put it in a squirt bottle. "Good for you!" she replied. ha ha ha...
After we were finished, Jeff took me to Chris Madrids! YUM-O! If you want an old fashion burger and fries made with REAL potatoes...go to Chris Madrids on Blanco and Hildebrand.
Then, off to Costco to compare prices. We joined. We are now executive members. :o) We only bought two things-a book for me to read, and some Speedo croc-like shoes.
yay!
Thursday, April 9, 2009
a penny saved is a penny earned
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
I think it's about right.
I've not gotten our air fare quote, but should in the next few days...in fact, think I'll call tomorrow.
AND in Happy Dance news: WE GOT AN APPT FOR FINGERPRINTING! Whoop whoop.
We are scrimping and saving to cover our expenses while we are away. We want to give some $$ to the boys to give to their wonderful caregivers...because they eat like horses + our mortgage and basic bills.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Would you pray for us, please?
Sunday, April 5, 2009
There's a chance...
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Mercy Moi
Go check it out!
Saturday, April 4, 2009
hello, hello!
:o)
We are nearing the end, folks.
No. That's not right...
We're nearing the beginning! The beginning of changed lives forever. Ours+Theirs. We are getting more and more excited as the days pass.
Our backyard is coming together. Most of the fence is done, the shed is completed and all shed stuff is moved in as of today. That means bedroom #3 will be started this week. This week! The kitchen will be put back this coming weekend, after the floor finishes curing and we can buff and seal it. YAY. We'll have our home office in the too small to eat in eating nook, along with the bottom portion of my art desk for creative play, brio, puzzles, etc. for the boys.
The white part of the desk that the flat file is sitting on is the perfect height for little people to stand and work, or sit and work/play. Joshua and Caleb asked if Dad (Jeff) could put a piece of trim around the perimeter like those fancy $200 dollar tables at the fancy toy store to keep things from rolling off. So I believe that is the plan.
At some point, maybe once we get home? Depends on our time frame...a fort will be built in the backyard with a slide. I think Jeff wants to design it himself and possibly make it multi-levels....but not too high! ;o) He really enjoys building things and working with his hands. I am so thankful he knows how to do all this stuff. It sure does save us money, plus he teaches the boys in the process.
Sooo, guess I'm rambling. Gonna go hit the hay now, I have nursery duty tomorrow...which I signed up for BEFORE we decided to adopt! And now, I'm not so enthused. I did say I'd go on and do April and May, but I cannot commit to anything after that because we're gonna have 5 BOYS in a pew and we're going to need to be together. G'night.
Sunday, March 29, 2009
But that is okay. God knew all along that would happen.
I am certain he will provide the rest of the money we need. When He has already given us such a large amount of money to date, I know He will not leave us hanging.
Of course, I still am sinful and tend to question Him. "How?" "When?"
That's not for me to know. I was given the scripture, "Be still and know that I am God." So that's what I am trying to do. ;o) It's really hard, by the way. Being still isn't something I do well naturally. However, I'm learning.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Projected Dates
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Kori wins!
He'll be 5 in July. We are so excited, a bit nervous, abundantly blessed.
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Update.
Why we decided to add Alan to our family...the short story. When our homestudy came through, and we were approved for 3, I called our director to let her know. Her first response was, "Oh don't worry, you can still just have the two. Unless...you were thinking otherwise?"
Ha ha. Yes. I was secretly thinking otherwise.
I asked, "Is there another child?" She told me of Alan, who recently had a bit of a hurtful experience. She conveyed the story and my heart melted. But what about Jeff. What about the boys?
So I approached Jeff cautiously. He was open. We continued to talk and pray tons.
What about J and C? Well, little did I know, they overheard the entire conversation with the director. Over the next week, Alan was center stage. They had so many good questions. They were very concerned for him. And. They continued to say, "Too bad we can't adopt him, too." Or, my personal favorite from Caleb, "Mom, if God can provide for us to adopt two boys, do you think he could provide for us to adopt three?" Good Lord. "What do you think, Caleb?" "Yes. God can do it. He made the world. He can do it."
And yes, I cried. (and am doing so now.)
Alan tipped the scales to joy overflowing in Joshua. That was huge. Joshua was always excited, but I think very nervous about the whole adoption and how it would change our family. But when he heard about Alan, those feelings subsided.
When we asked them what they thought (after about a week of prayer on our part), Joshua responded, "Well. I think I would really like him to be in our family."
Caleb said, "If Alan could be my brother, my heart would burst."
:o)
So we called the director, and told her the news. "It's unanimous. We want Alan!" Her sweet response, "Thank you Jesus. You've made my day."
Sooooo, I am now Mom to 5 boys. I am still a bit nervous about handling all this energy, but I think in time we'll find our groove and settle in nicely.
Yay God!